[Note from Frolic: We’re so excited to have author Rochelle B. Weinstein guest posting on the site today. She’s talking all things tearjerkers!]
What is it about tear-jerkers that make us, well, tear up? With themes of love and loss thread through my novels, I’m often asked how and why I write Kleenex-driven fiction. I’m not as sad or broken as the characters in my books. So why write like one?
Like many of us, I have experienced loss. Loss stretches across a range of life circumstances, and to quantify individual grief is impossible. But feelings are real. When a writer taps into deep-seated emotion, she provides readers with an opportunity to explore their hidden truths, to see themselves both real and raw. This vulnerability touches upon a range of beautiful and terrifying emotions, our deepest wishes, most nostalgic memories. When an author feels, her readers feel too.
As both a reader and a writer, I require a wide range of emotions from my characters. I want to ride along, not beside, but within. A good writer knows when they’ve accomplished that task. As I sit down to write each new novel, my aim is to take readers on a heartfelt, cathartic journey. To leave them a little richer, wiser, and self-aware. It is no wonder my preferred films, books, and songs are the ones that evoke similar emotions, moving me to tears. Here are some of my favorites:
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I can't wait to read your book!
I like Annie's Song and Pomp and Circumstances. My best friend sang You Fill Up my Senses at my wedding so that makes me cry. So does hearing the Star Spangled Banner and God Bless America especially these days.
I heard good things about The Nightingale.
And one of my favorite tear jerker movies is My Dog Skip. Makes me cry whenever I see it
I loved “This is not how it ends”, brilliant, beautiful , tragic and so many tears. Thank you.